Special woman is define as the person who is capable to show you feelings and emotions that you never had and the time is  going faster when you spend time together and have fun.It seems that this post is more for a teenager who is finding for the first time what means to be around of a girl and those faimous “ butterflys in the stomach” so lets see.

 

  Why I write down this post “ For a special woman” and my answer is coming  in this short story:

 

      I’ve met her ( K ………)  many  month ago ,everything was funny and playfull…..,she had the same name like my sister so forgetting her name was impossible,after that we were to busy to see us in the next days and  we  haven’t met  for months .This  life  is lovely and full of  great mysteries and she show up again into my face last tuesday.We’ve planned to see us again and thursday she was on time in the meeting place.Nothing strange till here but there I’ve started to see a different woman I was expecting to see,with so many comman things and what it’s interesting I was seeing me like  in a mirror.I was not expecting to see another person who is so close in thinking like me,someone who has almost the same view about life like me , firstly I was scared but after we spoke more,we started to have fun and enjoy each moment of being there and the time was flying – great night.I’ve knew before our date that she will leave the country and go back to her to put in practice what’s she is planning and I’m sure she will be succesfull again with everything but in those moments I wasn’t  so preoccupied about that.

 

        Next day  I’ve realized that I’ve met a special woman and all those feelings and emotions were amplified by the thought that she’s leaving the country next days and I can’t change nothing.Suddenly my mind  was focus only in this direction asking those famous questions :

 

• What can I change?
• Did I do something wrong?
• What can I do now?
• Why was possible to met her just when she’s leaving ?

 

 

 

 

……..and many others :-).

 

        It was very hard to be focus to my regular activities,even when I was out to a coffe with my friends but the answers to all my questions started to appear one by one and all of them are great lessons for the rest of my life 😀 .Here it’s what I’ve  learn :

 

1.  that enjoying at full intensity ,being present  is important ;
2.  that this life could be full of amazing moments that take our  breath away sometimes;
3.  to be open and ready for new experiences and to enjoy all of them ;
4. that I can’t control all the things from my life ,I have to leave some space for unexpected moments and learn as many lessons from them;
5. that being focus on other person is essential because this life is not only about me ;

 

 

 

 

 

      Another  thing I’ve realized is that we have to ask to the world, full of confidence,everything  what we want and go in that direction.

 

     A special woman  is leaving tomorrow and I’ve understood that she is busy with preparing all the baggages,saying goodbye to all  her friends  and in the same time a part of me was asking to the world to see her one more time before she goes and  my wish was listen somehow and I was able to met  her even without calling her,totally unexpected and say to her what was on my mind and heart so a big thank you for who listen my request.Now  when I’m writting this I’m relaxed and full of enthusiasm for what is coming next and a part of the pressure magically disappered :-).

 

 

     A big thank you I have to say to this special woman K………., as well because she had given me the opportunity to met her,to see a part of who  she is , to learn all those lessons and a great power to move forward and enjoying my life.

 

 

     Finally life is a continuous process of learning and seeing everything what is happen in it as a lesson will make you to love each moment.

 

     I have to add that everybody is special in his way,man or woman  and our mission is to discover that  part,but this could be done only when we are focus on others.

 

Thank you for reading this post .

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PS:Question for you :”Why  do all of us start to appreciate a person only after we are loosing her??” and I’m curious to see your answer in comments:).