When it is to answer to this question :” Should to avoid suffering?” I want tell you honestly that I didn’t find any magical recipe ,new pill or special way to leave all the suffering behind and have a great life like in fairy tells where everything is ending with famous “ Happily ever after” .

      And even in this imaginary stories the main characters during theirs existence have some problems ,some obstacles to solve in order to achieve that biggest dream of leaving happily ever after so suffering is a important part of our life.

    When I’ve wrote about a special woman I was specifying as well that all my emotions were increased only when I’ve realized what I’ve lost ,what I had around me and a part of me was suffering.

    Suffering might be considered one of the biggest drogs as possible because even if we don’t like this painfull experience we are still going in the same direction,to use it :).The ways of suffering are so many that I don’t have enough time in this life to make a list with them and I’m specifying some of them:

• We can  suffer when a close person  dies;
• We can suffer when we have a medical disses;
• We can suffer when we are betrayed  by a close friend;
• We can suffer when we don’t find the love;
• We can suffer when we don’t belive in our powers;
• We can suffer when we don’t know our vocation;
• We can suffer when we don’t have many friends.

   For sure you’ve had at least one and if not feel free to write in a comment what was yours way of suffering.

    So many ways of suffering and from here it is in our power to go on two roads:

•  Firstly  is to cry,be sad ,depressed  ,angry and ask yourself “ Why all of this happen only to me?”  and the result might be……..

• Secondly is to see the good side of your suffering  ,to accept it as soon as possible ,start assuming the responsibility today  and use it to have a great life.For example when you suffer of not having many close friends forced by this  you will  find creative solutions  to met them somehow( socializing,going out) ,when you have a health problem ,because of your suffering you start  to take care of yourself in a better way and you start to see life in a different way.

     From each suffering we could learn many interesting things about life,it’s in our power to decide .The best one is when we are able to learn from others suffering and avoid the cause of it and there are so many examples but again we prefer to have the same suffering in our life by doing exactly the same mistake .We see around us many accidents caused by speed but we still go sometimes very fast with an excuse “ I was late to work….”   till the day we have an incident .

      So in the end I’m  saying have as many experiences as possible,suffer ,learn from all of them great things and move forward to a better life.

Thank you for reading my posts.

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