Writing about  ethical standardsis the fifth part of the series of post about how to increase your self esteem,to be confident,to start assuming the responsibility today and finally to use personal development in your way to success- but what is that???

If you missed the last four post you could catch up reading them :

1.The perfect smile;

2.Increase your eye contact;

3.Could you move slower and pay attention to others;

4.Internal dialog or how do you speak to yourself?.

 

But what are your ethical standards in this moment?

One of the best gifts that you could give to yourself is to stop others getting pleased  before you please your person.

How many times did you put the best plates for guests and you eat from the not so nice ones???

How many times did you gave all your  energy to please your lover to stay with you even if he/she was interested in somebody else?

The reality is  that most of us are doing and using all the energy and time to please the persons we sympatise  so that we could win their appreciation.

If the answer is never you are one of the luck persons who is having good ethical standards and you could tell us in a comment to this post what is your secret.

Others getting pleased is one of the most important mistake of the ethical standards because you are involve in satisfying the desire of others before yours.

Regarding me I could say that many years I was always trying to get pleased all the person near me,to make them happy and the cruel part is that I was doing that expecting some appreciation in return.

During the time I realized that this is not a fair trade because I don’t have enough time to please all of them and taking care of me and my ethical standards is more important even at the beginning it sound selfish and cruel.

Now I less interested in pleasing others and even is I’m a little bit more selfish the before and in the same time I could offer more that before,first I’m thinking about me and after about others and the irony is that doing that I’m able to offer more value –“Less is more!”

When you start to use your ethical standards,taking care to do what you desire you stop comparing yourself with others and this is one of the most important benefits of starting doing this today.

The right way=>> I prefer to please me,I’m the only one who knows what is making me happy ,I’m having the freedom to be happy in my way .

A good advice I’ve received from a good friend was :

“Find out in what you truly belive,what it’s important for you,what makes you happy and start creating you own ethical standards!”

I’m curious to see your opinion in a comment .

Thank you for reading my post.

Sorin

PS:Thank you for  donating  an amount of money  so I will be able to offer more value.