Last time I’ve  writted some things about assuming the responsibility today and there I was specifying that I have to start to do all the hard job even if it’s not in my confort zone ,fighting for what I’m interested in.

   I could say as well that I’m one of those who said “ From tomorrow I will change my life “,” From next Monday  I will stop drinking alcohol”,” From next year  I will work very hard to finish all my projects!!!” and the list is having multiple starters like this ones and I have to specifie that sometimes I was starting with a new plan on Monday and after two or three days my mind which is our biggest enemy tell me to go back into that area were I’m feelling safe and confortable ,to go back to my old and not so good habits because finally we are all made by a sum of habits.My will was just enough for some day and after I was destroying everything I have been building before.

      Motivation is very important when I want to change my bad habits like ( eating junk food,making sport in a efficient way,sleeping propely ,creating a stabil social cercle …..) and how can I be motivated for a longer period or for my all life???The first answer which is coming into my mind now it’s a short story about when I had a small accident in my head area and the doctor told me to stop drinking coffe,alcohol,to be very carefull not to hit my head for one year so I could avoid spending much more time in hospital and because I’ve  suffered some hard pains obviously from the next day I started to apply what he told me so I was motivated by the fear of another big pain.

But I  can’t always wait to be motivated by fear of death ,or any other disease so I had to find something else to motivate me and I’ve found that personal development with find my real vocation might help me in changing my habits about which I’m not so proud.

     To describe this I have to add that having some goals in this life and one of them for me is “ gaining my personal freedom “ and working to obtain this is motivating me enough to wake up each morming  with a good reason.Having this goals put me to think about how should I act to gain them and I realized that first I have to take care of me and have enough energy to work daily to be successful.I realized that when I split my goal in small and tangible steps I become more effient so I don’t have any good reason to delay   improving my life exactly from this moment,taking action today !!!!

         I saw as well that when I’m trying to motivate my friend to go out from the confort zone I’m not so succesfull because they have to find by themselves what’s pushing them to stop with the bad habits and I can’t pretend to them to change their lifes when I’m not an example yet from all points of view.